Making Lifes decisions

People are uncontrolable and responses are varied. If you have to make a decission on whether to ask someone something just do it. Regret is worse than embarrasment everytime. Over time embarresment fades but a missed opertunity stays with you forever.

Most people I know are indecisive (dont make decisions) and ask me for help. I cannot give them the answers only words of greater wisdom than my own collected over time.

Book of the samurai

If you take time over thinking you will overcomplicate it. If you cannot make a decision within seven breaths take the upper hand and do it anyway. For if a decision can be made in seven breaths it will be a wise and prosperous decision. Contemplation leads to fear and cowerdice in some cases this is not the way of the samurai.

Remeber you always have more than the options placed before you. There is always the third option of not doing anything at all or doing something different.

I am crap at making decisions myself. I am idecisive and cowardly I will admit that this is a fault and that I will probabilly never overcome it.

The shy and causious are not cowardley they just prefer to reflect over time and judge impartially. When the meek inherit the earth time will cease and a new age will dawn.

BASICALLY what I am trying to say is make all decisions quickly and then stick to it for contemplation will eat you from within.

Rushing straight in shows great courage and valour and is to be comended

Here is something to help clear the mind so that you can listen to heart

If I flip a coin it gives me two choises BUT what if it lands on its side does a third choice not present itself.

Life is never striaght foreward and relationships get messy but ending is not the key for it is a cowards way out. Resolve and move on and life will treat you well and you will have no enemys. This creates a more stable enviroment for learning for the future. Learning from mistakes is the best that life can offer.

Leave the door to the past slightly ajar and it will be blown of its Hinges